Walter of Horton Kirby, was married to a Stacey;7
the propensity of Walter ladies for marrying into the clergy suggests that
he might have been the Henry Stacey who followed Dr Maxfield as rector of
Ridley and later became also rector of Hartley. Henry Stacey was followed
at Ridley by another Stacey, John, and, twenty years after, he too came to
share Ridley with Hartley. John Stacey was, in his time, chaplain to
Charles, Duke of Lennox and Richmond, of Cobham Hall;8 maybe
it was he who tied the knot when, to the great fury of another Charles, La
Belle Stuart, the famous Court beauty, eloped with the Duke.
No such heights were reached by the marriages which it fell
to William Baker to solemnise. Two Hodsoll daughters were wed in his time,
but there were only two marriages to which some social elaboration was
given in the Ash register and both were of non-residents. |
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One, in 1624, was between ‘Michael Petly (Gent)’
and ‘Mary Gilburne’. If Mary was a Gilbourne of Otford, both bride and
groom would have come from the vale of Darent; whether or not they
returned thither, there is no indication that they tarried in Ash. The
other wedding, in 1633, was of William Brown, perhaps of the family of
Brown or Browne who then lived at Reynold’s Place in Horton Kirby, and
‘Mistress Dorothe Smyth, widdowe’. Dorothy Smith was Anne Baker’s
surviving sister. She had buried her first husband in Fawkham church only
seven months before, which may explain the choice of a different venue for
her second venture. She returned with her new husband to Fawkham, where
they lived on until well into the days of the Commonwealth. Then death did
them part, but they were not in death long divided. |