Thomas Lambard, who succeeded Whitehead, was the first of
three of the name Lambard or Lambarde who, over the years, were rectors of
Ash. His father, Thomas Lambard, had died in 1770 and his mother in 1778;
latterly, he had been living at the family seat, Sevenoaks Park, with his
elder brother, Multon, and his four sisters.27 He was
still in his early twenties when, on his brother’s presentation, he
began an incumbency that was to last nearly thirty years. For most of its
last decade, he was also rector of Ridley.
The new rector arrived in Ash a bachelor, but in the
following year he married Sophia Otway, one of the daughters and
co-heiresses of Francis Otway of Riverhill. Sophia was a
great-grand-daughter of Auria James, who as an only child had inherited
her father’s estates, including the James’ family home, Romden Place
in the Weald. Auria James had a somewhat remarkable record; she married
John Otway of Mitcham at the age of fourteen, had twenty children by him
and died at the age of forty.28
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Something of a record was also initiated
by the marriage of Thomas Lambard and Sophia Otway. It was quickly
followed by the weddings of three of Thomas’ four sisters and, as all
three married into the Church, there were four clerical marriages in the
Lambard family within the space of two years. The last of these occasions,
which was perhaps the grandest, was at Ash, where on 13 September 1785 the
youngest sister, Jane, was married to the Revd John Randolph. Thomas
Lambard did not himself perform the ceremony, but he and his brother
Multon were both present. Randolph was Regius Professor of Divinity at
Oxford and a canon of Christ Church there. His professorial lectures were
delivered by candlelight and most of the undergraduates slept through
them. Despite, if not because of, this he was advanced to the Bishopric of
Oxford. Later he was Bishop of Bangor and finally he became Bishop of
London.29
Thomas Lambard’s marriage was sadly short-lived. In |